4. Why do I always feel so lonely?
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Loneliness arises from the belief in the illusion of separation. The belief is that you are separate from Love, God, All That Is--along with the belief that you are separate from your responsibility in creating your reality. No matter how many times you have experienced abandonment from the outside world, it is you who are now abandoning yourself and that continually creates the feeling of being lonely. So ask yourself, “How am I not showing up for myself?--What loving self-care can I begin doing for myself?” When you begin taking loving action for yourself, you will begin to feel and then you will be able to remember the true love that you are.

     The truth is that God is Love and God is All That Is. If God is Love and if God is All That Is, one can only conclude that nowhere is there anything but Love. We were all created in love, made as glorious reproductions of our Creator. Love is the will of the All; it is the motivating force in all things, even in fearful things. So, what is fear? Fear is the absence of the knowledge of Love but not different than Love. Fear is absence of knowledge -a condition created in the realm of perspective or belief. This realm is extremely powerful since your perspective or belief determines your interpretation of your circumstances and ultimately defines your experience. Some familiar forms of fear are jealousy, resentment, anger, envy, frustration, and intolerance. These fears are simply, “False Evidence Appearing Real”.

     The truth is… we are Spiritual Beings having a Human experience. We are all sprung from the same divine root and that root is unlimited, infinite, and free by its essential nature. We all contain this same divine, unlimited, infinite, and free core within our hearts. The truth is you cannot ever be otherwise, although you have free choice to play with the polarity - the judgment aspects of your Mind, continually creating illusions of bondage, servitude and the need to control. The whole of God is in every part of you because your divinity is total and absolute. Many of us have thought it was the other way around. You have never been separate from Love for an instant and never will be, because it is your true identity.

     Man sees himself as having fallen from grace and therefore cannot be part of the Spirit of God! This is how the illusion of separation from God was created. When you open your hearts to the love you have for yourself, you will see the world transform and begin to experience more love in your life. Gandhi said it so perfectly, “Be the change you wish to see in the world.” All you have to be is who you already truly are - Love in physical form.

     Transformation is not an intellectual process so your negative beliefs can slow or even stop the process from happening. Individually, transformation begins when you simply say “yes” to your heart, “yes” to love. Transformation occurs when you embrace and totally accept the truth that is found in your heart. Transformation is not about the intellect. If we could transform by our intellect, our world would be a very different place. The intellect does not, cannot, do it. The intellect was designed to be the servant of the heart; however, through eons of time we have managed to allow the intellect to be the servant of the Ego. The way to transformation is to love absolutely that baby girl or baby boy that lives within you and desires only absolute, unconditional love.